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Read on for more information about sexual harassment, including how it is defined by law, and what you can do if you are sexually harassed.
WHAT IS SEXUAL HARASSMENT?
Sexual harassment in the workplace is:
- Any verbal or physical interaction with you that is sexual and that you do not want.
- A sexual suggestion or explicit language about sex that you do not want.
- A pattern of sexually discriminatory remarks.
Examples of Sexual Harassment
- Verbal abuse, jokes, or conversations about sex.
- Pressure for sex. For example, this can be flirting, asking for sex, staring, or brushing up against a person’s body.
- Physical contact that you do not want. This can be patting, pinching, hugging, kissing, or other unnecessary touching.
- Showing sexually explicit or degrading materials. These can be posters, calendars, graffiti, signs, or clothing with offensive messages. These can include materials on e-mail or other communication tools that your company uses.
- Comments on a person’s appearance that make the person feel uncomfortable because of her or his sex.
- Sexually oriented entertainment at a work-related event.
- Demanding sexual favors.
- Giving promotions or other job favors because of saying yes or no to sex.
- Physical assault.
This behavior is harassment if it is offensive to you or you object to it. It is harassment if it causes you to be uncomfortable, it creates a hostile atmosphere, or it interferes with your job performance. Sexual harassment is not limited to any class or level of employee. You can be sexually harassed at work by someone you are currently dating or previously dated.
SEXUAL HARASSMENT VIOLATES THE LAW WHEN:
- You must submit to sexual demands to keep your job. These demands can be spoken or unspoken.
- An employer makes employment decisions about you depending on whether or not you submit to sexual demands. These decisions can be about hiring, promotions, raises, or other employment issues.
- The behavior creates an intimidating, hostile, or offensive working environment.
The law holds your employer responsible if you are sexually harassed. This is called liability.
An employer is also liable when a supervisor harasses someone, and this results in a concrete employment action, like firing, demotion, or no promotion. This is callled quid pro quo, which means this for that. One example is if a supervisor tells an employee to date him or be fired.
An employer is also liable when there is a hostile environment (words, actions, or pictures that are offensive to the employee) caused by co-workers or by others (such as customers) if the employer either knew or or should have known, and then did not take quick and appropriate action to change the environment.
In some cases, the employer is not liable for sexual harassment or a hostile environment caused by a supervisor if: 1) the employer can show it tried to prevent and stop harassment, and 2) you did not use the employer’s procedures to prevent and stop harassment and you did not have a good reason not to use the procedures.
Sexual harassment is illegal whether or not your employer has its own antiharassment policy. To prevent harassment, employers should create, publicize, and enforce a policy against sexual harassment. Employers should publish this policy in a personnel manual and circulate it to employees. The policy should include a procedure for reporting harassment.
WHAT CAN YOU DO IF YOU ARE SEXUALLY HARASSED?
1. Speak directly at the time the harassment occurs. You can say things like “I’m not interested,” or “I prefer that you do not touch me when we talk.” Say it firmly, without smiling or apologizing. Make it clear that you do not like the behavior. You may want to practice doing this in case the behavior happens again.
2. Keep a diary of what is happening to you in a bound book in which sheets of paper cannot be added. Take notes of what is said and done. Include dates, times, and places. Write down direct quotes. Save any letters, cards, notes, or materials sent to you. Keep the book in a secure place, preferably at home. Don’t keep this in your desk or locker at work.
3. Talk to your co-workers to learn if anyone saw the harassment. Find out if anyone else has been harassed. Perhaps someone left a job because of this. Witnesses can help provide evidence of sexual harassment. Otherwise, the only evidence may be your word against the harasser’s word.
Some Suggestions for Writing a Letter
Paragraph 1: Report the basic facts of what has happened. For example, you might say, “During the meeting you commented on my appearance,” or “You brush against me when you pass me in the hall.”
Paragraph 2: Describe how you feel about it. For example, you might say “My stomach turns to knots when I come to work,” or “I am thinking of asking for a transfer.”
Paragraph 3: Explain what you want to happen next, for example, “I want our relationship to be purely professional,” or “I want you to stop making comments about my appearance.”
4. If the harassment continues, you may want to put in writing that you object to it. Writing a letter to the harasser allows you to communicate your feelings without being interrupted. When you write a letter, most of the time the harasser does not say anything, but the behavior changes. The harasser may be surprised at the way you see the behavior. The harasser may also fear that you will make a formal charge and worry about who else has seen the letter. You may decide to send a copy of the letter to a supervisor if the letter does not get the harasser to stop. Keep a copy. If the letter doesn’t stop the harassment, it can later be used as evidence in a formal complaint or lawsuit.
5. Use formal complaint procedures where you work. Report the harassment to human resources or to your supervisor. If your supervisor is harassing you, report the harassment to that person’s supervisor. When you confront harassers, they may try to make you feel bad. But ignoring the problem won’t make it go away. If women remain silent, workplace harassment will continue to be seen as a personal problem rather than a social issue.
RETALIATION IS ILLEGAL
Retaliation for filing a charge is illegal. If you file a complaint and, as a result, you are transferred to a lower-paying job, passed over for promotion, or fired, you can report this to an enforcement agency.
FILING A COMPLAINT
The Equal Employment Opportunity Commission (EEOC) is the federal agency that enforces the law. This covers employers with at least 15 employees. You must file a complaint within 300 days of the harassment. You may be able to get back pay, money for damages, a job back, or other help.
To find the EEOC office nearest you, go to http://www.eeoc.gov/field or call 1-800-669-4000. The TTY number is 1-800-669-6820. States and some counties and cities have agencies that also enforce sexual harassment laws. Check with your state government for your state’s Fair Employment Practice Agency (FEPA) as well as local government for county and city agencies. You can also file a complaint with the EEOC online at http://bit.ly/eeoc-online.
In Illinois, the Illinois Department of Human Rights covers sexual harassment claims. 100 West Randolph, Chicago 312-814-6200 TTY: 312-263-1579, http://www2.illinois.gov/dhr
The Cook County Commission on Human Rights can help when a violation occurs in Cook County. 69 West Washington, Chicago 312-603-1100 TTY: 312-603-1101, http://www.cookcountyil.gov
In Chicago, the Chicago Commission on Human Relations covers violations that occur in Chicago. 740 North Sedgwick, Chicago 312-744-4111 TTY: 312-744-1088, http://www.cityofchicago.org/humanrelations
These three agencies cover any size employer for sexual harassment. You must file a complaint within 180 days.